I often wonder if this happens to anyone else or if it is just me. I feel like when my husband takes a few days away things are more controlled and overall just more light. This is not, in any way, to bash my husband or husbands all over the world. I am very realistic to the fact that I could not do it alone all the time. I am aware that part of the reason things may seem great while he is gone is because I know it is temporary and he will be back. But, the time that he is gone, it almost seems like I get more…