One of my husband’s favorite lines to me after he tries to get some and I deny him is “You should be happy that after 15 years I am still so attracted to you.” Somewhere in his brain, he thinks that is a compliment and to some degree when I look at it from his perspective, I understand what he is trying to say. He just chooses every single wrong word to communicate his feelings.  Nothing gets me more in the mood then hearing how lucky I am that the man I vowed to spend the rest of my life with through good times and bad feels the need to…